I turn the key and nothing. No click no nothing. I just replaced the relay thinking that was the issue but it wasn't. When the relay was off I hooked a jumper to the ground and the positive going to the starter and it started. It starts and runs fine when I start it with starting fluid. There is a 4 pin connection on the relay with 3 of the 4 connections taken up with a black, red, and red/white. I dont know what to do from here