O.K. here is the deal.
Thanks for everyones input, most of you guys that gave me advice were on the right track, but we have a tiny little detail that needs clarification......
YOU MUST WIRE THE SWITCH IN PARALELL ,NOT IN SERIES !!!!!!!!
Then ,and only then,all is well in Viper land.(both switches work)
That was the only reason I was having so much trouble, I kept trying the tether switch -in line, (series) I should have known better , but I have an excuse, I work 3rd shift and when I get to my projects, I am usually pretty burned out and with a few beers in me ,start to have trouble thinking straight.
So there you have it, case solved.
Thanks to everyone who posted .