bluewho
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I have been married for over 25 years 2 the girl i met in high school but yes we are a exception.One of our first dates she wanted to see what i did on the weekend for fun.
So i took her out in my dunebugy with a open body rollcage for a couple of hours before we went 2 dinner at my parents place.We got caught in a heavy rain storm on the way back and with no fenders the mud was flying so i drove the side of a wheat field to try 2 keep from getting mud in the face!
Well by the time we got back my mom could not believe i put her thru that.We were covered with mud and wheat and soaked from head 2 toe.I kept saying she wanted 2 go she wanted 2 go but it did not look good in my moms eyes.My wife was a farm girl so it was nothing 2 her.
Moral of story when you are dateing GIRLS JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN and i am sorry if i came off on you the wrong way !Some girls are attracted to the bad boys and some 2 guys that are focused on what they are going 2 do with there lives.
So i took her out in my dunebugy with a open body rollcage for a couple of hours before we went 2 dinner at my parents place.We got caught in a heavy rain storm on the way back and with no fenders the mud was flying so i drove the side of a wheat field to try 2 keep from getting mud in the face!
Well by the time we got back my mom could not believe i put her thru that.We were covered with mud and wheat and soaked from head 2 toe.I kept saying she wanted 2 go she wanted 2 go but it did not look good in my moms eyes.My wife was a farm girl so it was nothing 2 her.
Moral of story when you are dateing GIRLS JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN and i am sorry if i came off on you the wrong way !Some girls are attracted to the bad boys and some 2 guys that are focused on what they are going 2 do with there lives.
The girl I asked out to go SNOWMOBILING thought I WAS NUTS when I asked her.. She said WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND would play OUTSIDE in the wintertime on a snowmobile.. It was a 1976 exciter.... Well,, needless to say,, it's TWENTY FIVE YEARS LATER ( and more than a dozen snowmobiles later) and I CAN'T GET HER OFF of the DAMN SNOWMOBILE !!!!! WATCH what you wish for... Gary O... nosboy
If youre too close, theyll say youre smothering them
If you give em space, theyll ask why you never called
damned if you do, damned if you dont haha
If you give em space, theyll ask why you never called
damned if you do, damned if you dont haha
burnoutink
New member
don't over analyze, you only get to live once.
just Ride your sled, most importantly have a good time & love what you do.
If chicks notice you for what you doing, your more likely to pick up and chick thats on the same level as you, and this will also help you avoid random skanks, gold diggers and hookers.
The last thing you wanna do is look desperate.
just Ride your sled, most importantly have a good time & love what you do.
If chicks notice you for what you doing, your more likely to pick up and chick thats on the same level as you, and this will also help you avoid random skanks, gold diggers and hookers.
The last thing you wanna do is look desperate.
bluemonster1
LIFE MEMBER ONLY ONCE!!!
If I had my way from day one..I would of stayed away from chicks..lol..Could of had a lot of toys in my garage now if I did..probably a Turbo Apex or something and many other things.I know a lot of guys that won't get involved seriously at all...they like being single and no one tells them what to do and when to do it..Once you get tied down..forget that 4 stroke Yami...lol
yea well im just try and calm down the last 2 days have just been terrible ive been a mess partially because of this also because im trying to help out my best friend and his lady trouble being my friends therapists really wears on you especially when you are failing at helping
Bluemonster2
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bluemonster1 said:If I had my way from day one..I would of stayed away from chicks..lol..Could of had a lot of toys in my garage now if I did..probably a Turbo Apex or something and many other things.I know a lot of guys that won't get involved seriously at all...they like being single and no one tells them what to do and when to do it..Once you get tied down..forget that 4 stroke Yami...lol
x2 thats me, went through enough bullshit in my lifetime and im only 27 lol I wouldnt mind meeting sombody with the same interests that doesnt care if I have tons of toys!!!
Bluemonster2
New member
gutteer said:yea well im just try and calm down the last 2 days have just been terrible ive been a mess partially because of this also because im trying to help out my best friend and his lady trouble being my friends therapists really wears on you especially when you are failing at helping
Just dont text or call her if she cares to talk to you she will talk to you. Most girls dont like clingy guys. You havnt known her that long and its not worth stressing out over. Why is her x beating her? She may be the type that likes to screw with boys' heads and whatnot.
bluemonster1
LIFE MEMBER ONLY ONCE!!!
hi Scott...lol.
WHY AVOID random skanks, gold diggers and hookers???? Those were some of the BEST one nighters that I've EVER HAD !!!!burnoutink said:don't over analyze, you only get to live once.
just Ride your sled, most importantly have a good time & love what you do.
If chicks notice you for what you doing, your more likely to pick up and chick thats on the same level as you, and this will also help you avoid random skanks, gold diggers and hookers.
The last thing you wanna do is look desperate.
He don't have to MARRY THEM.!!!
nvr2fst
New member
gutteer said:yea well im just try and calm down the last 2 days have just been terrible ive been a mess partially because of this also because im trying to help out my best friend and his lady trouble being my friends therapists really wears on you especially when you are failing at helping
Take a breather. Take a week or two off from the therapy. Don't step in too far with the advice to a buddies relationship. It almost always will come back to bite you in the rear.
About your situation. Take a deep breath and slow it down. Sounds like this girl just wasn't the right fit for you, or you for her. Remember it has to work both ways.
A good friend of mine told me years ago..."A relationship that works, is no work at all"
That is all the advice that was given, but all that was needed. Nothing is perfect, he wasn't saying or meaning that, but it should just work all on its own.
Keep riding the blue and enjoy the dog house!!! Then just say..."you were right hun, I apologize"
bluemonster1
LIFE MEMBER ONLY ONCE!!!
Gary..how much did the Golddiggers get out of you..lol...