Wow, I have some catching up to do here..
jaydaniels, that sucks
jwiedmayer, I would love to do that or get him to check with DHL or something else but I talked to him on the phone before he got the shipping quote and my first thought about how bright the guy is wasn't good (if you know what I mean).
horkn, No he didn't give me the dimensions of the box. As soon as he heard that $140 was too high (when my friend called him) he hung up. Which makes me wonder if he just wanted to make a little extra off of this or something. Who knows. Maybe they really did tell him $140, but maybe he just wanted to get more out of the 3 pieces than the $53 and figured since we already agreed to pay the shipping and hadn't already agreed on an amount that he would just charge more for the shipping.
joe.snow, I know about the change they are making to feedback on there. That isn't going into effect until May. A lot of people are extremely unhappy about that too including me. Why shouldn't the seller be able to leave feedback? They claim one of the reasons it's changing is because as it is right now, buyers are afraid to leave honest feedback in fear of getting a negative from the seller. Someone made the comment about sellers leaving feedback as soon as the buyer pays, I have always left feedback for the buyer as soon as I receive payment.
ALWAYS And I still have never gotten a negative feedback. I also
always used to state in the auction that I would only charge actual shipping and to email me if you wanted a shipping quote. The problem with that was that I would get 20 people asking me how much to ship to 20 different locations. I tried using UPS's online calculator for a while (I have a couple different accurate digital scales) but it was
never the same as what they charged me in my local UPS. And no, it is not a UPS Store either. There wasn't even a UPS Store in Cadillac until a few years ago and they charge more so I don't ever go there. That guy being new to ebay kind of sucks if you ask me. He has nothing to lose by just abandoning that account and starting over.
Zachalyse, I don't know if he's a snake or not. I just wish he wouldn't have hung up as soon as he heard the words "$140 for shipping is too high". Why would he hang up? Why not try to work something out? If he is really only gonna charge actual shipping (which is what he claimed before I bid) what difference should it make to him if it costs less?
daman, I don't have a Toyota.
YAMAHIZAL700, I have used DHL in the past. But it was for shipping goods to a guy out in Washington that we sell to every spring. He has the account set up so I don't know how much they charge. They come right to my house and pick the goods up.
horkn, I already commented about the seller leaving feedback first above. ebay should require the seller to leave feedback first. Sellers holding out to leave it for the buyer is a bunch of BS. I never get feedback left for me when I buy something until I leave it first. I also should have a lot more positive feedbacks as a buyer that they just never left.
dmsrx700, If I was the one selling these to you or someone else I would get the best price possible. I wouldn't just tell you that I checked UPS and it's $140 and leave it at that. I know they can be shipped cheaper. I also would not

someone over just because a price hadn't already been agreed on. Which is what I'm thinking he might be trying to do since he hung up and wouldn't answer when we tried to call back.